Dogs are often called man’s best friend. Cats, however, seem to be the opposite: they enjoy their privacy and only come around when they need food or attention. Many people argue that men are like dogs and women are like cats, but I beg to differ. Men are like cats for many reasons. I’m not saying men can’t be like dogs, but I’d like to open your mind to the idea of what a man might be. A man is more than what people believe he should be. He’s exceptional, and here are some reasons why.
Men Need Their Alone Time
Like cats, men often appreciate being alone. Many men enjoy time with friends but also cherish time alone to be themselves and pursue their hobbies. Just like a cat can be left alone for hours until it’s time to eat, a man can be perfectly content spending time alone with his hobbies.
You can leave a man in his space with his interests, and he’ll be as happy as can be. But after some time, he’ll likely peek in to spend time with you. Men are more like cats than we might think—and Jodi Miller seems to think so too.
Men are Resourceful
When a cat needs to catch a mouse, it uses its surroundings to help. Whether it’s jumping off furniture or finding a hidden path, a cat doesn’t rely on others to figure things out.
Men are similar in this way. Generally, they’ll go through trial and error, solving problems on their own before seeking help. Men are resourceful and determined, willing to do what it takes to get the job done—even if it sometimes leaves them in a tight spot.
Men Are Explorers
Curiosity drives both men and cats. Think about all those funny videos of people breaking trampolines, building fires in unexpected places, or tinkering with things just to see what happens. Many of those videos feature men exploring with friends, pushing boundaries, and experimenting with what they have.
Cats do this too, often disappearing for hours and returning as if they’ve had their own adventures. You might find a cat curled up in your shoe, hiding in a box, or wedged between walls. Cats and men alike enjoy their own escapades and expect trust in return.
Men Need to Be Men
Speaking of trust, men trust their partners, much like cats trust their owners to provide care when needed. This isn’t to say men are dependent; just as a cat can catch its own food, a man can take care of himself.
Men enjoy going out to work and then coming home, much like a cat who enjoys hunting and might bring back a “gift” for its owner. After a hard day’s work, men tend to keep their thoughts to themselves, but after a good meal and some relaxation, they start to open up.
This is when he might share deeper thoughts and feelings with me. I love it because, like a cat, he chooses when to let me in, rather than always being openly available. It also means that he doesn’t share his deeper self with just anyone; he needs trust and intimacy.
Some people believe men are like dogs—and to an extent, they are. But in many ways, men are like cats. They don’t give themselves away to just anyone; they need one person to be true to, and that’s enough for them.